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Beautiful things happen when I distance myself from negativity. Cutting people out of my life doesn’t mean I dont respect them, it just means that I respect myself. If someone in my space is toxic, I know I must release that toxic energy from my life. Because I know beautiful things happen when I distance my self from negativity. Miracles happen when I surround myself with positive energy. Miracles happen when I am in sync with miracles to happen.

When my focus is joy, when my focus is happiness, when my focus is abundance, more abundance comes, more happiness comes and more joy comes. When you let go of all that is not meant to be in your life, you create space for better things to enter. You attract better things when you let go of negative things without resistance. You are so much more than you could ever imagine and you deserve very much better. If you pay attention to how you feel, if you are intensely present, if you act mostly in full consciousness you know which people must stay and which should let go. You know which situation to walk away from. It might not be easy but you have to be brave enough in making those decisions. Your future depends upon it. Anger, shouting, and negative criticism are major signs of a toxic personality. Angry people sometimes need a lot of help, but it’s not your job to be their punching bag. It is definitely not your job to try and fix them! Staying around a person like this will cause you to become angry too. So kick back and find someone else to talk to: you’ll have a lot more fun.

Not all of them are, though, and despite our best efforts we will occasionally find ourselves entangled with someone who takes from our experience more than they add to it. Toxic people are dangerous. They are dangerous to our inner peace and they’re dangerous to our self-esteem. The most dangerous thing about them, though, is that they can often lurk in our closest inner circles. The true secret to growth in this life is learning how to identify them and detach them from our journey to happiness. It can come down to a realization that the person isn’t so great, or it can simply come down to a change in direction. Sometimes, though, we realize that someone in our lives is just downright toxic. While everyone has a rough patch here and there, the relationships in our lives be they romantic, friendly or otherwise, should add to it in positive and meaningful ways.

To be honest, coping with toxic people has never been my specialty. I have dealt with enough toxicity in my life to know when it’s best to cut ties. But we all have toxic people in our lives who can’t be avoided, whether it be a parent or in-lewd, a sibling or a sibling’s spouse, a friend of a friend, or a co-worker whom you just can’t stand. But all of the way, I realized and understood that how these people invade your inner circle and as mentioned above I wasn’t good enough to cope up with this toxicity. I didn’t realized at first pace. But slowly when I came to know that where I was going? What I was going through? How I was feeling? No one knew except me. It made me depressed thinking of how one can destroy your mental peace and control your thoughts. Like you are just around a person or people you can say and its been years you are around them, stick together to them but you never felt happy. In fact in return you get the most negative experiences. I, myself always have a strong gut feeling about the negative experiences. Whenever it is a negative vibe, I m onto it, like I can feel that vibe. But I never wanted to admit that what I am feeling because was that important? The person of course. Start ignoring them. Stop talking to them. You need to accept this people that this thing can destroy you completely for sure. Your life will be at a point where you cannot balance between the world which is reality and on the other hand your own world of thoughts. This balance has to be maintained properly.

Just start distancing yourself from these toxic relationships you are experiencing. May it be your spouse, your family, your friend, any other. I repeat it may be any. Many people are going through these relationships and dont wanna get out of them. Because they have surrounded themself with a shell which they think they cannot break. But trust me on this, you can, every other person can. First of all stop criticizing yourself. Because you aren’t the one who needs this. Other thing is that start exploring yourself and trust yourself. Have faith. Surround yourself with positive people. Find your positive energy and this can be found in your true supporters. People who support you. People who love you. Be around them. Talk to them. Tell them you love them. Share your problems and trust me they will listen. We all need to listen to every other person and we should try to solve their problems.❤ Laugh out loud people. Be productive. Scream out loud if you really think you want to. Be positive. You will overcome this for sure.?❤

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  6. You know how much i feel proud when i think of you. I know you are by my side no matter what. I LOVE YOU for the person you’re and for the one you’re not. ❤?? My Polar Bear ? I promise to never let you feel TOXIC in this Toxic world ❤ Xoxo ???

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  12. Very nice and deep positive thinking as well as good written.

    I would like to add that sometimes you have to see the circumstances of life, your relationships which you can’t neglect and have to sacrifice by even indulging yourself in bitter feelings and situations to keep your relations happy. In life mostly you have to live for others.

    Anyhow your views are superb and positive like your good self.

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  19. Its amazing loujain….yara proud of you, literally you left me commentless; its so amazing. Your Hidden talent that you’re showing through your words. I’m so blessed that you’re my friend❤️ keep it up, you potrays everything beautifully, God bless you my girl ….brightest future waiting for a bright star?

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  21. Usually I never comment on blogs but your article is so convincing that I never stop myself to say something about it. You’re doing a great job ,Keep it up.?

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  23. You have beautifully converted your thoughts into words. Good job girl.. But the bitter reality is that sometimes or in some relations you have to compromise, let the things be and ignore them to save your relation. Its a part of life.

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  29. Good job dear! Your thoughts lead towards reality.. But most of the time you have to go through a situation where you have to face such kind of toxic people.. No doubt you have done a good job.. Always stay positive!

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